Can guys tell if you're a virgin?

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I'm just curious 🤔 would a man be able to tell if I was a virgin when we have sex? Btw I know there's no such thing as a "tight" vagina so that wouldn't give it away haha. I kinda just want to get it over and done with but I don't want to tell them I'm a virgin. I don't have shame being one but like I said I just want to get it over with.

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You should know why you want to no longer be a virgin and "get it over with". A guy may not be able to tell from the inside, but he may pick up on your inexperience. That's why it should be with someone you trust not to judge whether or not you've had sex. Take your time, you may regret rushing later on.

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I lost my virginity to the wrong guy because I wanted to get it over with. Sweetie your virginity is worth so much more than that. It still breaks my heart when I look into my husband’s eyes, knowing that he could have been my one and only, but I shared intimacy with someone else because I wanted to get it over with.

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put your fingers up there then baaam your no longer a virgin ... then u didnt just have to get it over and done with , with someone u hardly know

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Uhm I bled when I lost my virginity so he might be freaked out if u lie..

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There’s no such thing as virgin your “cherry” can be popped by simply doing the splits or stretching, a guy can’t tell if you don’t tell him, some people have sex but their “cherry” never pops.

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No lol. My husband and I have been having sex for 3 yrs and yet he still thinks he will loosen my vagina if he fingers me during foreplay and it won't feel as good when he goes inside.... 🙄🙄🙄

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First, there is such a thing as a “tight vagina”. Second, it took my ex and I three attempts, three nights in a row for me to lose my virginity. It was painful as hell and bloody.  And now 20 years later, if I don’t have sex in a month my vagina tightens up and the initial entry of the penis hurts. We are all built differently. My OB still uses the smallest speculum during my yearly pelvic exams. 
You should think long and hard before giving your virginity to someone. It’s a special thing. Trust all the advice you’ve been given on this thread. Once you lose it it’s gone forever. And it’s so true when you hear you never forget your first. Good or bad. I will never forget my first cause I hate his guts and he is an awful human being.

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Virginity is a social construct sweetie! Do whatever you want. My first time having penetrative sex with a guy I did not tell him anything. Because just like you I just wanted to get it over with. At first I was afraid he would pick up on my inexperience but once we got a groove going and the initial pain was gone I had the best time of my life!! Do it girl but make sure you are 110% comfortable with whoever you choose ❤️

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No he shouldn’t be able to tell, apart from your lack of experience. Just so you know though, there definitely IS such thing as a tight vagina. My boyfriend sometimes says it actually hurts how tight it is. I’m only 50kg and 5ft 3 so it kinda makes sense but yeah, just thought I’d throw that out there 😂 again though you should be fine, everyone’s hoo ha feels different and he won’t have a clue that you’re a virgin unless you make it obvious by not knowing what on earth you’re doing, or if you bleed! Good luck 💁🏽

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It might hurt a bit (even though it doesn’t have to) and feel a little uncomfortable, and you may not know exactly “what to do” but I think that if you tell a guy you’ll  1) save yourself from the asshole who freaks out and runs because “it’s not right” or whatever and  2) he’ll know to take things slow or gentle, at least at first, and make sure that you feel comfortable
That’s all in my opinion 🤔🤷🏽‍♀️

Can guys tell if you're a virgin?

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