heres my story, before i gave birth, it was painful to walk, i was bleeding, and i threw up. my husband said its embarassing cause i couldnt walk right and he had to help, i was also moaning in pain. i was given the epidural, but it still hurted when my baby, and the placenta was pushed out. before i was given the epidural, my ob told my hub to hold my hand and be by my side, cause im in pain. he didnt care, i even wanted and told him to come over, but still nothing. my ob student nurse came in to talk to us, shes really smiley, anyways, my hub checked her out as she walks out the door, and his attention was on her. he was all smiley to her also. he finally was on my side when my ob needed him to help push my legs back. after i gave birth, my hub lied about going home to sleep, went to grab weed, came 5hrs later to sleep. my baby was kept w me and he started crying a lot at night around 1am. my hub was so mad, he yelled at me silently, called me pathetic, dumb, pig head, and stupid nonstop. he even pushed me cause i yelled at him back. he said hes gonna leave me and i said please do, but he didnt. i wish he did tho. the day when i was gonna get discharged, the student nurse came back w my ob. my hub was sitting behind me watching tv. as my ob left, the student nurse just stood there looking at us, smiling. idk what my husband did to her that made her flirtly wave at him. she didnt say anything to us or me. she just flirty waved bye to my hub cause he did something. im so mad at my husband, i will never forget how rude, unsupportive, and disrespectful he was to me.