Less stress

I’ve made it my goal to b pregnant by Christmas instead of worrying about wanting right here and now (which of course i do) but setting in my mind wht I wonderful time tht would b and knowing I’m doing everything I can it seems achievable. I kno there is a chance it might not happen but it gives me a plan and it’s ordy helped reduce my anxiety ovr it bcuz now either way I’m not gonna announce to family till thn :) and if it dnt happen thn I’ll plan for Valentine’s Day :) gotta stay positive. So any ideas how to announce to the family???