I haven’t posted on here for a while. After 3 miscarriages in 8 months my head wasn’t in the right place and I was sure something wasn’t right. So my husband and I went to get checked out. We had to pay private to get it done quicker, so after almost £4000 we have some answers.

I was diagnosed with boarderline natural killer cells for which I have to take steroids to stop my immune system attacking my babies. My husband was diagnosed with 48% damage to his sperm so he also has take tablets.

So after all of that this month was our first month of trying again after a 4 month gap. I’m on day 26, AF is due on Monday or Tuesday and the doctor advised to start testing. So please, what has been a really really hard year for us both - is this the start of something or am I over analysing cos I want to see something that isn’t there?

Thank you