is it wrong

Just need opinions...so I've been dating a married man(i just found out)well anyway he says he already filed for a divorce and he wants to marry me in the future. Anyway he's an older man and all he doea is work and come homs. He's a good man and nice to my kids. The only thing about him is he doesnt like going out anywhere he's content at home. Me myself dont mind going out to dinner, movies, pool etc...I like being home as well. Anyway I met someone around my age thats more exciting. We havent had sex or anything but the company is fun. My question is, would this be cheating?