how do you tell your significant other that during sex kissing is ok but full out make out isnt nessecery? I dont get it. I feel weird. is it weird for a woman not to want to make out with her spouse during sex. also is it bad that i fake it to hurry my spouse up. i dont want to be mean but ive had better sex with myself.

i dont know what else to say but i have to switch poxition when its get to much even when im enjoying the position im in just not the kissing.