Will your doctor tell you the gender?

My last appointment was at 13 weeks and my doctor did a quick ultrasound and mentioned that you could possibly tell the gender, but she didn’t want to tell us yet since it was still early. My anatomy scan is scheduled for when I’m 20 weeks! Which is still currently a month away 😢

My next appointment with my doctor will be at 17 weeks (in 2 weeks), and they should do another ultrasound! If I specifically ask for them to tell me the gender, will they? I’ve heard from other people that sometimes they will decline to say anything until you get your anatomy scan! I’m just so anxious to know, we want to start shopping ASAP!