Sex lives after the baby?

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I know this is tmi but how is everybody sex lives after the baby? Mine is great but the difficult part is finding the right time! I swear every time we are about to do it, she wakes up!  I don't know how moms with 2 or more do it! We would give her to a family member but we live 2 hours from our families, army life!

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Am I the only one who thinks post baby sex is better?? 😱 it’s more fun, spontaneous - because we have to be sneaky sometimes, and I swear it feels better than before! It’s not quite as often as before but I think that’s the only downside.

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Stale, unromantic, boring, gross, terrible. And only once a week, maybe longer.

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Ugh. It's not the greatest over here.. Sex is still kind of painful for me at first, which makes me not really in the mood most of the time. And my son wakes up a lot too sometimes if I'm not in bed with him.. I'm hoping once I stop breastfeeding the pain will go away.. 😩

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We didn't even had sex yet! it's been a very long time! so embarrassing! after the baby arrived i was not in the mood for it.  We where both overwhelmed with the baby.. And then the baby sleeping with us makes it even harder..  🙊🙊

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It's been a bit rough here! My drive is almost nonexistent (which is abnormal for me) since I've had the baby. It's been a little better recently, but I have a hard time switching from breastfeeding to sex within minutes sometimes lol.... our son wakes up a lot too.. we try to time it for right after he falls asleep but it doesn't always work out!

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dead .

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We definitely have sex less since now I'm impressed when we actually have sex more than once a week. I just had a conversation with my husband about how I needed him to be more romantic because taking care of our child all day really doesn't put me in the mood to have sex so I'm hoping that improves. But with our baby having a sleep regression I've also just been super tired lately and falling asleep at 9:30 a lot so once a week has been pretty good. Sometimes my husband tries to tell me to leave our child in his crib when he's not asleep to have sex but hearing him play even if he's not upset is just too distracting for me so I always feel like it's not really an option unless the baby's asleep. But when I feel in the mood, it's still good, just different because certain positions don't really work for me anymore. It took several months for it to feel normal to me again too though we had sex again right when I got cleared- and we stopped right when I lost my mucus plug at 34w during pregnancy so we didn't have sex at all for about 2.5 months. I'm mostly just hoping to bring a little more romance back- we haven't been gone from the baby together yet so maybe that would help but I feel guilty asking anyone to watch him right now when he's staying up for an hour at 3 am.

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We've become more adventurous. We literally would have to wait until baby goes to sleep then go for it right then lol

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Non-existent, however my sex drive is still very high. It’s his lack of help, care, and everything else that is making me go lathered is no way dude”.

Sex lives after the baby?

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