upset my husband won't have sex with me


please can you help. I came off the pill in September and my husband and I agreed we'd try for a baby. I tracked my ovulation this month and this was the week! I was hoping to dtd on Friday but he wasn't interested. When I asked him about it he said he was playing hard to get! - I said thought he just wasn't bothered! I'm so upset that we have missed our "window" this month and I can't think of an thing else. suggestions please? I think we must be out of sync. my husband doesn't seem bothered but I know he wants a baby. Thank you