my husband doesn't want to have another baby even though we have talked about having two. hell only agree to it if I don't breastfeed, despite all the benefits. I don't think I would have gotten over my baby blues or ppd without breastfeeding my son and bonding. it toke 3 months before I could look at him and see how amazing he was and how much I love him. now my husband wants to take that opportunity away. He says he wants skin to skin time while bottle feeding the next baby with formula, tho he has had plenty of skin to skin with our son without feeding him. whenever my son is not on me nursing or asleep I pass him off to my husband. He literally has a lot of time to bond