My husband and I have both agreed once we do get pregnant with #2 we are not telling anyone until we either know the gender or it is impossible to hide it.

We didn’t decide this because we are ashamed of becoming pregnant. We decided because we don’t want to deal with any drama from either sides of our family. We are a young family. We were married at 19, had our daughter at 21 while in college (I had just finished weeks before my due date), and both of us have only been full time employed in our new place for a year. Our daughter will be 2 this December.

I just don’t got any to hear about the judgment when we made the decision that we wanted to ttc our second baby.