I know im overthinking things, but i had to vent it out. My boyfriend of 9 months moved. We are in a long distance relationship at the moment and have discussed the idea of me moving to be with him.

Now, i trust him, i do. But, there is always that nagging thought in my mind that i dont know what hes doing or who hes with. Im always a little paranoid because ive been cheated on before in a past relationship. Its also a little weird for me because hes one of those guys who has a lot of girl friends (new territory....)

Now, on a typical day, we text good morning, a few times in the day and then the last 2-33 hours before bed. Currently , he took a flight to visit a girl friend of his for a Halloween party in Virginia. He only text me a few times while on the trip and i text him first both times. Then, he said they were in a cabin and didnt have much service. I want him to have fun with his friends, he deserves it. I dont need him to text me every two seconds because i know hes with friends and i know he doesnt look at his phone much when hes with friends.

But, my mind keeps running into thoughts of him and this girl alone together in a cabin somewhere all night long.....

Its hard when i dont know all of these friends of his and im not there. Plus, it doesnt help that i miss him and part of me is jealous that he spent time and money to see this friend of his instead of me.

I know im being stupid, but i feel like i need confirmation that im just overthinking. Anyone have an opinion on the situation?