Do you use sex toys without your spouse knowing about it?

Question

It's terrible to be sex deprived, we're humans after all. We have needs. My husband is barely intimate with me. He rejects my advances!  When he rejects me, I feel like I just want to order up something that will release me! but I feel guilty, I've never used a sex toy before. I'm scared doing so will ruin what ever is left of my marriage. What's your thought on this?

Answer

If you want to use a toy, GO FOR IT! 
..but don't hide it. I think of it like any other personal care item. Sure it's great when my husband can scratch my back but he isnt always there. That's why I have a back scratcher. 
Get a toy, but tell your husband. Make sure he understands why you are doing it, but be careful not to turn it into a guilt trip.

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You need to be honest with your husband. Tell him that you need more intimacy and you're considering buying sex toys.
My husband is totally against sex toys too because he's concerned that I'll start needing those artificial methods to get off and won't find natural sex satisfying enough.

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If he has issues with you using a sex toy, there's deeper problems there.

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If you pleasing yourself ruins your marriage, it wasn't the toy. Not sure which is more painful, the rejection or the lack of initiation. Have you asked him what's up?

Do you use sex toys without your spouse knowing about it?

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