I’m gonna give you guys a warning right now, this post is gonna involve some dark things involving rape so if you don’t want to read anymore that’s okay.

My husband and I are newlyweds, he has a lot of issues involving depression, anxiety, and a personality disorder that he has struggled with for most of his life. I love him dearly and am very patient with him. He told me that when he was a toddler he was molested/raped regularly for about 4 years. A lot of his issues come from this... it’s something I’ll always be sensitive too for his sake. I just recently found out the identity of his rapist, which is his uncle. I’ve only met him a few times and I didnt know that about him at the time. My husband has confided in me about his issues and has told me what happened to him is something that will effect him always but he’s come to terms with it and it doesn’t effect him so much anymore, he also told me that he forgave his uncle.. guys idon’t know how to handle this, I always grew up a very sheltered and well taken care of child, all my family where good people. I feel like i shouldn’t be around his uncle because I feel rage towards him at this point. Thinking about everything my husband had to go through brings me to tears every single time, he struggles so much and I feel for him so much. I don’t know how to respond to any of this, this is dark and I don’t want to cause family drama by avoiding his uncle but I love my husband so much and seeing the pain he’s gone through breaks my heart every single day..