Talking to 2 guys, can't pick

So I recently broke up with my long distant boyfriend who lived in Seattle as I lived in Ny. It got to be a bit much being we were so far apart and would argue about things that hadn't happened yet. We were getting ready to move in together and I called everything off because I started to involve my self with another man. Me and this other guy have been talking for almost 6 months and it seems like everything is going good. My ex and I have recently gotten in contact and you can assume all those feelings have come back we used to have and I wanna be with him. But he lives on the other side of the country. This new guy seems to hold back so much from me and he doesn't even call me his girlfriend because he doesn't feel we are on that level yet. Idk if I should just work things out with my ex because I plan on moving back to the west coast, or should I just stay with with the current guy because he's here and make something blossom