Relationship standards

My husband says that my standards for a relationship are too high. I really don’t feel like that’s true and feel that, since he wants to be with me for the rest of my life and he says my happiness is his priority .... that he should make sure I feel respected and loved. The standards that I have for him are the same ones I have for myself... I don’t know what to do. Maybe I am wrong? Can y’all give me examples of what acceptable and not acceptable high standards are in a relationship?