I just miscarried and I’m so scared

Jessica • 9y.o daughter. 5y.o son. Trying for #3🌈baby

I have two kids (9 and 6). I found out on Thursday last week (my birthday) via blood test that I was pregnant. I found out today (Halloween) that I miscarried. I never knew how bad a MC is physically. It literally hurts.. so bad. Not to mention the fear and the sadness and the frustration and the self blame.

My husband doesn’t want to give up. I read you’re the most fertile in the 4-6 weeks after a MC and that’s the risk of MC goes waaaaay down. This was my first ever MC. I feel sick and lost and confused.

Who tried immediately after to get pregnant again? Did it work? Did it fail? I need advice. Any advice. I’m so scared.

Please help me.