Sex while breast feeding

I HAVE QUESTIONS

If they apply to you, I'd like to know lol.

So, let's say you're exclusively breast feeding your baby and you're in a relationship and obviously have sex.

When you have sex, can you have boob play? Grabbing/sucking/squeezing, all that jazz. Can you do that without having milk come out? I'm sure it comes out with sucking but

Is your partner freaked out by it if you do end up leaking milk? Or does it turn him/her on?

If you don't do boob play, can your nipples just start leaking out of nowhere in the middle of sex?

Do you just go a while without boob play like "sorry, the boobs you are trying to reach are currently out of sexual service. Contact when no longer lactating"

Ive never had a baby. But I plan to, and these are things I seriously think about while im washing my hair in the shower because I'm weird.

Give me allllll the dirty details of sex while lactating

Ive seen my sister accidentally shoot boob milk into her daughters face when she pulled her boob out to feed her (which was the funniest thing I've ever seen in my life) so now I'm like wow I'm gonna have boobs squirting milk and a man who is obsessed with my boobs I wonder what that will be like lmao

I couldn't ask her either. By the time she gave birth she was no longer with the dad, so she wouldn't know either because she's not having sex.