So my boyfriend of over a year and a half and I have been fighting quite a bit lately. Honestly it sounds stupid but I know he’s my soul mate. I can see us spending the rest of our lives together. Anyways as soon as we graduate highschool this year we are going to college. He’s going to be there for 5 years. And could be across the country from me. He’s calm about it and I’m freaking out. He’s allergic to horses and that’s what I do, I want to train them for a living. He’s very supportive of it and always cheers me on. But other people constantly get mad at me that I’m putting him at risk. The biggest thing is that he’s constantly with his family. Im at his house almost everyday. And we never get any alone time. They also always crash our plans and follow us around. We went for a shopping trip an hour away and they followed us there and we ended up spending the whole day with them. He comes to my house like once a month and he’s usually later than planned. We’ve just been fighting so much about all of this and I hate it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I love him so much and I can’t let this wreck our relationship