Stuck in the Closet

I’m 14 and I know for a fact that I’m bisexual. But the thing is, I’m scared to tell anyone.

I don’t mind telling some of my friends, but I feel like they would start acting different around me then.

My family is very open minded and my mom supports the lgbtq community. But I know that she would be disgusted if she found out one of her kids was a part of that. She’s made some homophobic comments before and I just don’t know what to do.

I had a plan to wait like 10 years or until I’m financially stable and have my own place before I tell my family because that way if they don’t want anything to do with me, I’ll have my own place and I’ll already be independent. I wouldn’t be living with my mom so she wouldn’t be able to kick me out or something.

I was going to go with that, but I don’t know if I can wait that long.