Hey y'all. So I've known my fiancé for 7 years, been together 5 years, and engaged for almost a year. I love him dearly he is just so sweet. We met when we were 15 so we basically grew up together.

Anyways, he was never one to eat me out often. After 6 months (maybe even more) of is dating he hadn't done it so I asked him if that was something he's done before. I honestly don't remember his answer but after that he finally did. To be honest he's not much of a giver in bed (bummer), but when he does he' great, ugh.

Recently he's been so stressed with work and trying to figure our shit out so we can get a house sooner rather than later. He's very hardworking and that's great and all but that's all he's focused on. I'm over here like hey I need some attention 🤦🏼‍♀️

So the sex isn't as often, which sucks for me because I like it often. But also he hasn't eaten me out in a LONG TIME. He always has those lame excuses for sex like "im so tired" and shit like that. But for eating me out, it's always that his jaw hurts. So yeah that's annoying. I haven given him head in awhile either because well, its just not being reciprocated 🙄

I really love him and wouldn't leave him but this sex thing is killing me. We just have different sexual needs. How can I spice things up with him!?