IVF Virgin help!

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So because of the HOLIDAYS......the lab closes on December 7th, therefore my doc is saying early January will be my retrieval and transfer. I always forget to ask questions because I have always done that, but I know I’m gonna start the pill at some point and I’m supposed to call the nurse when I start my cycle again so they can do an ultrasound to check my follicles. Does anyone have a timeline they think they can project for me? Like what will most likely happen when. Given the 2 things I do know.... or any suggestions on how to be patient???! I’ve been to 2 baby showers in the last 30 days and this is so hard.