Since I found out I was pregnant, I moved in with my mom only because I knew I couldn't count on baby's father financially. He cared more about paying his mortgage of $3,000 (due to bankruptcy plan) then to help me pay medical bills or a place to live. I was at the time living alone. Since my move he has been there for me on weekends considering he works and lives an hour from me. I am starting to feel like 2nd on my needs. He is there when I need him just as long as his son isnt around. If he has his son, it's first his 7 yr old son then me. Doesnt include me on any activities he has with him. He does things with son and then focuses on what I need his help on. If he has his son, some thinlgs doesnt get done because of his son. It has always been this way but now with another son on the way, he doesnt change! I expressed how he makes me feel and it turns into an arguement. He claims he doesnt get any help from me and I dont see him crying about it. I told him that it seems his son will always be #1 and the baby that is coming will always be 2nd. I can't always count on him and I am starting to resent his son. Don't know how I should feel.