So ever since I was pregnant with our son (now 7 months) my husband has said he was getting a vasectomy when he was born! I was so against it at first. My husband has also said he was NOT ever having any other children either, (we have 2) (I want one more) so, we’ve been going back and forth for a while on this, I’ve finally come to terms with him getting a vasectomy and no more children, well NOW he doesn’t want to get a vasectomy, he wants me to get fixed or BC, but I’m not going under the knife because it’s not my choice to not want children anymore, I want more, also I’m breastfeeding so I’m not taking any hormonal birthcontrols. So I wanted to talk to him about getting the ParaGard iud and now he tells me he doesn’t know what he wants, but doesn’t tell me it’s okay to get my ParaGard. He won’t give me a direct answer on anything!

I know this is confusing! I just had to vent! I gave him 2 weeks to make up my mind, either have one more child or the ParaGard iud that’s good for TWELVE years! My oldest will be 18 then and my youngest will be 12!