So basically I got with my partner 2 years ago almost 3 next year and masturbation has pissed me off always, I see it as like you have me why do you need to tug, anyway! He has a 4.5 year old and we have a stillborn son together we lost him last year, I can pick him like a bar of soap and know what he is gonna do! I get his son up everyday and take him to school with me and I bring him home of an afternoon when I'm finished, so he is with me 24/7 7 days a week I don't get a break, but when dad has a day off he get a break he is home alone! He will masturbate I told him once it's like a drug for you, you have to do it, even after work when I'm not home he will masturbate! So I'm going to put my foot down and till him no more sex, handjobs or blow job until you can stop madturbation almost 7-8 tomes a week that's crazy I'm like 1-2 MAX A FORTNIGHT! I would rather have sex with him then rub with my hand and I crazy? Or do I have a right? I just get the shits and walk out now as soon as I found out that he has done it and all our fights after over this topic