Judging people

People keep telling i dont know how to parent. Im a ftm and my baby is 7 months and she is clingy. She doesn't like strangers she will play with you as long as you dont pick her up. If she doesn't get her naps on time she gets cranky (like if we are travel and that causes her schedule to change a little). So when she cries they blame me. They say im pampering her too much. Or recently she has been teething and you can see a tooth and this is making her fussy. My uncle told me you dont know how to take care of her, she was crying because two days aho she had her immunization shots and her tooth is coming in. What am i doing wrong? They want her to be a calm baby who goes to everyone. I cant help that she doesn't want to, but apparently its my fault. I feel alone and the comments are not helping. Im alone here raising her. Im so tired of people telling me what to do.