18 30 weeks pregnant and living on my
Own with my boyfriend of 3 years......... am I getting miss treated even thought he does so much for me? Before I start he is STUBBORN I can't get a word in I can't ever be right I'm always wrong. My bf is a sweetheart but he also know he's mean and an asshole he admits his sister even tells me he's "mean asf" so please hear me out he's a great guy but bad attitude that idk how to handle anymore...
We were watching a movie that we got at red box and you know I get it your tired u go to school and work I get it. So he was dosing off at the end and he wanted to leave but I was like "babe can u stay there's 20 min left then will go to bed" before I go any further the computer wasn't connecting to the printer so he couldn't print it out.. he said he would "do it later" I said okay now fast forward to when I asked him to stay he got mad? Idk why I guess grumpy.. who tf knows. He says " but I'm tired! Leave me alone I just want to go to bed I do fucking everything" whatever I let him go then I said "wait wait wait can you do the registry really quick so me and my ma can send out the invite tomorrow it's very important" he goes " don't tell me what to fucking do! I can go to bed when I want where I want leave me the fuck alone!!" So then I satart bursting out crying (I hide it from him) he see me crying and says " really now you're gonna cry?! That's all u fucking do your the asshole not me!!!!" Then there was a pause cause I didn't have anything to say then he goes "really fucking baby". (This is why I don't cry infront of him anymore but I just couldn't help but to burst because I'm sick of getting "mistreated even thought he treats me so well?) then he storms off into the bedroom knowing he made me cry and now I hear him snoring perfectly sound asleep while in in the living room pretty much asking myself wtf did I do to get "fuck you" " you're a fuckinf baby grow up" etc today? Okay I don't work I get it but don't put me down like today when we were at the store looking for food to eat during the week I said "what can I cook that you'd want" his reply "when do u ever cook I go to school and work and I do it myself and cook so don't say "what can I cook" I'm the one that fuckinf cooks". I left it alone I wasn't about to deal with it in the store. Today when I called him an asshole in the mall it was because I was out of it and asked him if he can order for me. He didn't do it for me so I looked stupid when the lady was looking at me because I thought he was gonna do it for me. After we got everything he called me retarded because I sounded stupid he goes "she was talking to you and you looked retarded can u not fucking speak? Do I have to speak for you? Do it your god damn self" that's when I called him an asshole and then he said "fuck you" 4 times while we were leaving and people looked.... then today we were doing laundry wait I should ME because he didn't even do shit but "we" did laundry and I was putting the socks on the floor so I can organize is easier you know? He was folding my shirts (surprisingly) but that's because I asked him to since I do it for him... but he saw HIS socks on the floor (as well as my socks) and goes "wtf those are clean! You're a dumbass pick that shit up!" I start laughing thinking he was kidding but he was dead serious. Then I talk back because I'm sick of his attitude all damn day and said "it's just fucking sick we put them on our feet I'm fucking organizing them!!!!!" He then does this HE grabs my folded shirts and pants and fuckinng throws them on the floor. ( okay u threw my clean outfits on the floor not a big deal it's just our floor but for you to throw them out of spit that's shitty) so then I ignore him and he loves it I swear he love making me mad and feeling shitty cause he will Pugh and say " aww you're not gonna talk to me now" and tried to make up like wtf is wrong with you. I have to beg for massages, ask you to put your dishes in the dishwasher(his excuse is I don't have time) but you have time to play video games before work????? Am I crazy am I getting a little miss. treated??? He does a lot for me I get it and he also makes that in a bad way like today I said "thank you baby" he goes "for what" and I said "for putting gas in my car and getting me pads and food etc" this is his reply "who else is going to do it for you anyways??" I just feel unwanted and confused is he a shitty person AND a good bf at the same time? I don't understand
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