Hello Beautiful people,

I need help!

I’ve been in a long distance relationship with my love of my life for over a year now and I need your opinion on something.

This has been bugging me for a while.. is it completely normal to not have “naughty” video call sessions with your significant other?

I want to have those “sessions” on a video call with him but we rarely talk sexual. We do tease each other (rarely) and he says he masturbates to my nudes (we only shared nudes a couple of times) but Im just wondering why he wont just do it “live” with me. I know he isnt shy and we video skype normally pretty often but we just dont get kinky.

I’ve also discussed it once with him if he finds me sexually attractive and he says yes, which was how I found out he masturbates to my nudes. Without trying to sound crazy, do you lovely ladies think its okay that the relationship doesnt really go towards the sexual side?

Also wondering if there’s a way to get him into it with me.. I mean I masturbate often and I would love it if he would join me at the same time.

Truly appreciate your help! Hugs.