How do you feel safe?

Kelsey • Happily married• Mommy to a sweet princess and baby boy• Elementary Teacher

Hey, ladies and gents. I'm 24 years old with a 2 month old baby girl. My hubby just started his new job, which is 12 hour night shifts. He's done night shift before since we've been married, but he rotated btwn days and nights. This time, it's straight nights. Also, new house. I never completely felt safe in my old house, and I don't in this one either.

So, I guess my question is, how do you ever feel safe and/or comfortable in a home alone at night? I can feel safe all day long during the day, but when nights hit, I get uneasy and scared/skittish.

I've never really lived alone, and I don't now, just stay at home at night. I went straight from my parents to college dorm roommates, then to apartment roommates, then to living with my husband.