Gaining confidence in bed

Kayla

I’m pretty shy in life & in bed & I’m just looking for ways to gain confidence. I’m not crazy shy about my body, and the parts I am shy about I’m working on. I need to gain confidence in my abilities I guess? I would like to wake a guy up with a blow job or even initiate sex but I never do because I always sit there overthinking things. Honestly, I’m just excited for foreplay to be over so I can get down to it haha which is kinda shitty because foreplay is a huge part of sex. Any tips on gaining the confidence to be able to initiate sex or do anything like that?