So my boyfriend and me were texting a few days ago and I told him that I “wanted him” like really bad and so he began telling me all of the things he would do to me. He got really freaky talking about choking me and he knows that turns me on. So we were talking on the phone and the convo came up and he told me that he wanted me but that he’s not freaky and I said I beg to differ and he asked me what was I talking about and I went to read him the text messages and he told me that it wasn’t him texting him but that it was his friend. So I’m just sitting her on the phone with him being silent feeling dumb and really sad that he would let someone else talk to me like that on his phone. Should I feel dumb? What should I do?