weight gain in 2ns pregnancy

Treysi

morning y'all! yep it's 5:30... if I'm up- EVERYBODY is up! So I'm a thick girl, small waist, big hips, thighs etc right? the women in my family have a tendency to gain about 60-65 lbs when they are pregnant. I got lucky and somehow gained about 20 total with my first. BUT.. I heard with your second you show sooner and possibly gain more. not looking forward to turning into a beached whale let me tell you! did any of you guys gain to more weight the second time around or did you gain about the same as you did with the first? I'm short as well and I have a huge history of high blood pressure and I'm also trying to eat better so I don't make myself more high risk. I want a healthy pregnancy but I also don't want to look at old pictures before baby #2 and regret not being as careful with what I put on my body! I wanna be able to see my feet after my pregnancy too ya know! lol heeellppp!!!!