Hair Stylists/ Psoriasis

Anyone else have really bad dandruff or psoriasis on their scalp that you have done everything to help or get rid of and just can’t?

My main question is; ever go to get a hair cut or a hair service and the hair stylist is nasty to you about the condition of your scalp? Makes snooty comments as if you didn’t already know?

Is there a reason why?

I literally can’t help it and besides my scalp I have absolutely gorgeous, long thick hair. I’m embarrassed and now I don’t even want to go to anyone because every time I have been they always say something and make me feel bad for it.

Just looking for some answers or support or someone with similar experiences. I’d love to hear from hair stylists themselves on the situation and how you handle it and if it really is someone you guys hate to deal with: I’m sure not everyone is the same but in my experience I’ve always had someone shame me because of it.