Other Methods

I love my man, I really do, but the sex just isn't great. I'm not really trying to get into why he can't/won't do what I need him to do to get me to cum but I started thinking of how to make up for it. Has anyone ever used clit stimulating gels or g spot gels? Do they work? and if so, how do they feel? How much of a difference did it make? Also, what brand?