The first time you told someone???

So I never told anyone that I have herpes. It's been a lottle over a year since I found out and nobody knows. I'm scared shitless to tell anyone especially a potential partner... I want to let someone know... idk who but I feel like if I told someone I'll be able to accept the face that I have it but people are so judgmental. Who was the first person you told? What was their reaction? Or how did it go when you told a significant other?