Bitch bf

So me and my boyfriend haven’t been on the best of terms and haven’t seen each other in a few days. He’s been making feel like he doesn’t love me lately seeing he isn’t the most affectionate person and things like hitting me up and stuff isnt like something he does at first priority. If I say anything about it he says I’m always so negative so it’s a lost case tryna get him to understand. I really just wanna like shower him with love cause I really miss him but his attitude is turning me off. And I think mines is turning his off but he’s a lot more low tolerance than I am. Gonna see him today should I shower him with love and break the tension or be stand off and let him do it?