I want him but he doesn’t want me.
I’m 37 weeks pregnant. 17 days until I’m due and I feel so fat and ugly like my face has broken out in spots my belly is coveted in stretch marks more than ever, I’m so uncomfortable when sitting, sleeping, walking. I so ready for this baby to be born.
All I want to do is jump on my fiancé, kiss him and do whatever else but he always turns me down whenever I try to initiate anything. It’s like he doesn’t want me. I’ve tried talking to him about it. I asked him how he feels because obviously if he’s uncomfortable about being intimate I’d rather know how he feels but he says he still wants to and that I’m still attractive to him but I still feel like I make his skin crawl because I don’t know if he realises how he’s still brushing me off it’s making me feel rubbish I ask him for a kiss and I get one kiss, a peck on the cheek and all I want to do is kiss him. Like a proper kiss. It’s all I crave. He can go days without kissing me or cuddling me unless I ask but then it’s not even meaningful. I don’t know how to make him want me. He says all the right things when I bring it up but he acts the same when the conversation is over. I want things to be okay before this baby is born because I’m worried it might get worse when she’s here because I’m not just going to spring back to normal. Everything was fine up until a couple of weeks ago he just changed over night.
Any advice is greatly appreciated.
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