before babies vs after babies

me before kids...couldnt that women pump b4 she left her house so she would've had a bottle, I will NEVER let our baby sleep in bed, they will in crib since day 1, I have to work after baby, ill need it to stay sane. me after kids...breastfeed exclusively any where and everywhere my kids are hungry...both kids sleep in my bed (and have since day 1), stay at home mom for 5 years now and couldn't imagine being away from them and will never regret staying home. never judge someone for their choices and assume what u will do as a mom cause obviously when u r a mom it's a whole new ball game.