what should i do

Question

so I was lurking through me boyfriend's iPad.. and find some messages between him and some other girls.
I confronted him and he confesses to me that he gets a rush from showing his body over camera 
he said he was going to stop but idk what to think..
what should I do?

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I would tell him that he could find ways to get a rush in a way that isn’t exposing his body to strangers or even friends. His body is between you two, you don’t own him but he is your person so you have every right to express how it makes you feel confused and uncomfortable.

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Are you guys adults? Are you comfortable with doing that also? You could cam together and make money doing it!

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I'm married so I guess I see it differently. I'd flip out and he wouldn't be my man anymore. It sounds like childish games to me and low key like cheating.

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You don't have to be okay with that. If you aren't okay with it, let him know, and if it's not something he can compromise on, then leave him.

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I recently caught my man messaging another woman and his explanation was because she was obsessed with him (she was-they worked together and she had a HUGE crush) and she was also a virgin he would mention sex to try and scare her off. It somewhat worked but she was starting to get into it. She also KNEW he had a gf. I had confronted him and had him explain wtf the messages were. I believed him. And because we've been together a year and I love him I gave him a second chance. My anxiety still kills me sometimes because I worry. But I told him if he wants to keep me he has to be more honest and open about things. He told me later that he had thought about proposing the next day to show how much he loves me and wanted to keep me (as well as promising to never do it again) but didn't go through with it because he knew it would be bad timing and I agreed since I'm still getting over it.  -sorry for the long story- Hope it helps.

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