My husband and I️ have been married for a year and he really wants us to start trying, but I️ feel so uncertain. My main concern is we don’t have a house (we live rent free in a tiny studio apartment) and so I’m concerned how we would be we finically when having more bills. My husband is convinced could make it work especially since ever extra dime we make goes towards a house. I️ also know our families would help us out if we got in a bad situation.

I️ know people say that if you aren’t sure you’re ready for a baby you shouldn’t try, but I️ don’t think I’ll ever feel READY either. You know? I️ just feel torn. I️ just started my period so I️ have until Sunday to decide if I’m going off bc for December.