Whether your relationship status is married or taken, do you as the significant other to your man, feel obligated to give him sex when he demands it?

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No matter the situation in the relationship, so you feel obligated to give your  man sex? whether you're a stay at home/working mom/gf/wife and he's also working or not;  what ever the preference of the house hold and who's the sole bread winner. Doesn't matter. If he demands sex and makes an argument out of it, so you feel obligated to give it up?

Accepted Answer

Lmao he can grow the fuck up or I’ll demand my foot up his ass

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I used to say no when I wasnt in the mood. But honestly for some reason the foot is on the other foot now and since I switched birth controls my sex drive is up 100% and he says no every time I try until he wants it. Which honestly is never. So I do miss having the constant affection from my man. It honestly breaks you being rejected. 
I hope I didn’t make him feel the way he makes me feel when he says no.

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He doesn't demand it.

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If i don’t feel like it, I’m not doing it🤷🏽‍♀️

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Nope.

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My man and I respect each other. If one of us wants sex we ask and then respect the answer. If he ever demanded id lose my mind. It’s not an obligation it’s suppose to be enjoyable.

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My husband never demands sex. If he's in the mood he'll either ask me if I'd like to join him in the bedroom or just start smooching on me. But if I am not enthusiastic about it or say I don't want to, he just says "it's okay honey, we don't have to."  I don't ever feel pressured to have sex and that's as it should be. I don't think it's every okay for your partner to make you feel like you HAVE to have sex or to be rude/mean about being turned down. Now if you are NEVER having sex and its causing a problem in the relationship, that's an entirely separate issue that needs to be addressed.

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Sex is my love language. His not having sex with me would be like him saying he didn't want to communicate with me. If you don't want to communicate with me, why are you with me? I've never told him no. I've never been too tired, on my period, or not had enough time. Declining sex whenever one feels like it may work for some relationships, but it wouldn't work for mine. Before we started dating I told him that if he ever turned me down for sex 2 days in a row, he'd better come with a doctor's note.

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Well I don't like the wording "demand," however I voted yes. If my husband wants to have sex I always say yes. The only time I've ever said no is when I haven't felt good, and he's always understanding. He's never demanded sex from me, lol. But being rejected hurts, so even if I'm not in the mood, I still have sex with him. I think it's selfish (for both partners) to only have sex when YOU want it. What if that rarely lines up? Physical intimacy is such an important part of connecting to and bonding with your partner, and it has healthy benefits for both of you and your relationship, even if you weren't 100% in the mood originally.

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honey they day you work a part time job and pick ur son up from school and clean and cook and do laundry. and pay the bills and run errands give ur son a bath get him ready for bed wake up at 5am to take me to work and come back and get breakfast ready for ur self and ur son and ate constantly on the go. ill fucking give u sex whenever u want. so with me he'll naw I don't feel obligated to give him sex. if he gets mad. too dam bad. I give it up when i want or am in the mood. and the reason being is a woman's. job never ends. weather were stay at home moms or not. so we do get tired. and they just don't understand

Whether your relationship status is married or taken, do you as the significant other to your man, feel obligated to give him sex when he demands it?

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