Did my hymen break?? I’m a Virgin but I do dance

So I’m a Virgin, never had sex, and I’m Muslim. I’m middle eastern. I can’t have sex before marriage.. and my culture says middle eastern men only marry virgins. If he marries u and finds out u arnt a virgin, he will leave u. It’s true. And I only want to marry a middle eastern guy. So I’m in highschool and I’ve done dance for 2 years. I only wore a tampon like 2-3 times.. I wear pads. I checked in the mirror and I see a small pink thing around my vagina but I have to spread my legs.. what if I broke my humen?? I’m dead! Do u think ivebroken my hymen??

Edit: people are saying hymens don’t break, so if I have sex obviously itnwould break? If I have sex can it stretch and then go back to normal like I never had sex? I’m asking because if my hmtne broke my husband will know if I don’t bleed right!!! People r saying men don’t know female Anatomy but if I don’t bleed they will think I’m not a virgin and that’s just middle eastern men. And they will leave me. Even tho I havnt had sex!!??