I think I'm done...

We haven't tried IVF yet, (lack of $$$). We've been ttc for 6 years now (We're 33). We did all the tests. We tried clomid and fsh injections, IUI, homeopathy, herbs, tried taking a break from trying, tried vacations, going vegan. My cycle just won't regulate, and I can't figure out why. All the drs seem to want to skip the step of actually figuring out why my periods are so heavy and irregular, which I feel is key!.

I've been frustrated and at peace many different times throughout this process, but I'm at a point now where I just don't want to worry anymore about having a baby "before I get too old".

I really want to adopt though! I've always wanted to, even before we realized we would have trouble conceiving.

So I guess here's my issue... what do you think? When we finally save up enough 💵💵, should we try IVF first, then start saving again to adopt? Or just go straight to adopting since we want to do that anyway?