I’m having extreme feelings (anger and frustration) about my partners ex-wife and I’m STRUGGLING to know what to do with that. She just won’t stop TAKING from us and it’s been YEARS. She hates him and didn’t want to be married anymore, she just doesn’t want to work and thinks he should support her anyway - even though divorced. They share a child (he’s 10) and we already pay for everything possible AND have joint custody.

I’m an ex-wife myself (no kids) and I have always treated her the same way that I would want to be treated by the new Mrs-me. I’m just at a loss for what to do because we’re TTC #1 for me and this stress is hurting me. 😥

If you have any advice (either as ‘her’ or as ‘me’), I’m listening! 🙏🏼