Sorry this is kinda long..... I'm 27+3 now with my 2nd baby. My hubby & I each have a 9yr old from previous relationships & this is our 1st together. That makes 3. I had always told him I wanted to have 2 more on down the road back when we got serious. We've been together 8yrs & just finally got ready to have one together. Anyways, he mentioned the other night he thinks this is it for him & I understand and respect that but he wasnt sure he wanted another then slowly started wanting one over these past years so I'm not too sure he's fo sho done, ya know. Either way, I'm nowhere near sure. I'm 30 & my kids will be nearly 10yrs apart. I feel like if I got my tubes tied, I'd regret it later on. I don't want my baby making days to be over! 😢😢😢 I had the Mirena for the first 5yrs after my 1st then we just did the pull out thing for the last 4yrs (no scares, which is crazy!) I would honestly rather stick to just pullout cause he's pretty good at it, I'd be ok with another baby if a slip up happened & I don't like what all the birth controls do to me. I've tried em all, but not every brand or whatever. I'm not sure he will be ok with that or not & I'm really not ready to mention it so I thought I'd see what others think. I'm pretty sure I want another baby maybe about 3yrs from this one. Anyways, any advice is appreciated & if I'm being stupid, tell me. I won't get my feelings hurt 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣