Is there something wrong with me?

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I can never cum when we’re having sex? Even when he rubs my clit I just can’t.. 
Toys don’t work either.. I can only cum if I do it all myself!?

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I also have this secret issue. And if you tell anyone they think 1. You're a weirdo and 2. You're man is not doing it right

What it really comes down to is I have gotten myself off for as long as I can remember and that is how I get off. Trust me, sex feels amazing and everything that comes with it! I just don't orgasm the way I do when I do it alone and by myself.

Michael Jackson - You are Not Alone

Lol

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Actually most females can’t from just sex! Although its extremely enjoyable for me I just could never climax during sex. Even with a wonderful partner.  You’re not alone. It’s very common!

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Sometimes I think it's mind over matter. If you two are trying to make it happen it won't (sometimes) just relax and enjoy don't just try to make it happen!

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I am the same way. Feel so bad cause my man tries so hard and i just can't

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I have the same problem. He tries so hard, i feel bad.

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You could try showing him. Let him watch while you do it so he can see what you're doing that works for you. You could also do what you normally do, but using his hand (if you need the manual simulation). You'd basically have your hand over his and you would still be in control plus it'd be like a kind of practicing for him. Good luck!

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Yup same here! And I KNOW it's nothing to do with his skills. He's wonderful :) but I put so much pressure on myself, it just kills off any possible orgasm.

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just relax & enjoy I have THE BEST orgasms when I'm not waiting for it to happen. if ur thinking about it or trying to force it it most likely won't happen

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Not even through oral? It doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you it just may take time to figure out what you need, have you tried taking control?

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