anyone just alone and you want a baby ?

Question

I been alone all my life. never had real friends. I have a boyfriend but i want a baby . so i won’t be alone and have soemthing exciting to do with my life . Nothing good is going in my life so why not make babies to fulfilll my life and I won’t be alone anymore on the weekends.. All i do is work .. I’m 25 . anyone feel the same way

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Honey, wanting to procreate so you'll "have something to do on the weekends and won't be alone and will fill the void in your life" are not good or healthy reasons to have a baby. Your future child deserves a healthy, happy mother. You need to take care of yourself first and get to a place where you feel good and stable. Children definitely bring you a lot of happiness, that's true, but they are also a LOT of work and push you to your absolute limits. If you are struggling right now, a baby is not going to fix that.

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everyone says babies bring happiness and joy and yet you guys are telling her no she shouldn't have one 😒 if thats what she wants then why not its her choice not yours. maybe she means something to do on the weekends because she works and maybe she wants weekends to go out and do things with her child.your kids are your best friends. you dont know how she feels and what joy a child would bring her. no matter if its hard or not thats all part of motherhood.. pshhh the nerve of some people 😑

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My best friend’s mother was in the same situation as you and she had my bff in-vitro. She always says it was the best decision she ever made. If you want a a baby and you can financially provide for him or her and you have the time to put into raising a child, then go for it 👍🏻

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Babies are not made to make you feel better about yourself. Having one is not going to change the way you feel, and honestly, it might make you feel worse.
Honestly, that’s a selfish reason to have a child.😑

anyone just alone and you want a baby ?

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