Help!!

Amanda

How do I tell if these are evap lines or truly vfl? They progress in darkness but neither showed up in the time frame. the 3rd is 12 dpo done at 4 am when I was half asleep. I didn't notice a line and threw it away. saw this when I woke up again so I pulled the others out of the trash as well. The 2nd is 11 dpo. It has a faint line as well, more faint than today's. the first test from 10 dpo, I don't think I see a line. Im scared to get excited because in September I had 5 days of faint lines that ended in a miscarriage. Been trying for 5 months and I really want this to be a baby! AF not due on the 20th!