Mostly, I just need to vent. My boyfriend and I are currently doing the long distance thing since his job transferred. He always asks me if I've seen any good looking men. Honestly, I don't pay much attention to anyone so I told him "Oh. There was a guy on a Christmas movie I watched yesterday that I would give a 7 to." He demanded to know the name of the guy. Well, it was one of those corny little Christmas movies so it took some digging. I finally found it and now he is calling me names and told me he would be looking at women all day on the internet. Oh, and he's never paying for cable again. I am just... like I don't even know what to say, what to feel right now. This isn't the first time he's acted this way but I really thought our relationship had changed and we were stronger than this. He's a good looking man but he's going through a midlife crisis and I really just don't know what to do. I'm sure a lot would say leave but that's not what I want to do. Any sound advice?

And yes, he's really stooping this low...

Update/Sort of. Because we argued over this until 5 in the morning and had to get up at 8, I ended up taking a nap in the hotel room. I poured my heart out to him but not in a begging way. I told him how much I loved him and then started trying to give a guilt trip about how I thought we were so much better etc. I said Id leave him alone and fell asleep. After not hearing from me for 2 hours, he reached out. He asked me if I was still here. I told him I had just gotten out of the shower. He asked "Did you masturbate in the shower to that guy?" So... He's still going on about it. It doesn't even bother me that he tried to make me jealous with some "skinny girl" in a Google search. My boyfriend is a body builder so if they are smaller than him, then I must like skinny men and not him. If they are the same size (though never in his eyes) or bigger then he's mad over that. Over time, I have gotten to where if I even see a man, I look away or down. No matter what they look like. I really don't even know what to do now. Part of me wants to run to our home, pack my stuff and go back where I came from. I moved 4 hours away from my family to be with him, for him to get a job 2 more hours away. :(