couldn’t get him off?

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i gave my first blowjob last night and i couldn’t get him off. he explained to me that only 1 girl out of 4 or 5 that he’s hooked up with have been able to make him orgasm so that made me feel a bit better, but i’m still pretty embarrassed. i guess it’s cause  blowjobs have always seemed like a foolproof way to get a guy off and i couldn’t even do it. is it a huge deal?

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My husband can hold off cumming for ever, which is great during sex, and  or so great during blow jobs. Last week when I got to the 2.5 hour mark, I stopped and was like, "dude! I know my head game is great, wtf is the problem?!" He said, "so you want me to cum?" Ummmm, yes! So he did. He said that sometimes he just enjoys the feeling so much that he won't cum so that I can continue.  
It made me feel like I was slacking, so I get it. Oral sex isn't the fail safe for every guy. Also, he can enjoy it without an orgasm. Don't worry about it!

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You just need to relax, and practice since you didn’t make it the first time. Don’t be hard on yourself, he probably has a high sex drive at his age and masturbates a lot who knows?

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I’ve only ever gotten 2 guys off from blowjobs, and with one I was doing other things too... it’s not a big deal, everyone’s different.

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No it’s not a big deal. Some guys just can’t finish that way. And it’s the first blowjob you’ve given

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It's actually not that weird for guys to not be able to get off that way. I've had a few guys tell me I'm the only one who's been able to make them cum with my mouth and my hubby has to tell me to stop if I want penetration. lol

couldn’t get him off?

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